1+1=1: ... beyond the secrets of beautiful relationships
About this ebook
... losing our identities
Being in love ... is a totally different way of experiencing life.
Being in love ... is amazing.
But … love is not for everyone.
Yes ...
Not any of us can understand and accept the illogical rules of love.
And ... the truth is ... we are afraid of getting lost ... of losing our souls ... our identities ... our minds.
I was in love.
... not only one time.
I dare to write about love ... cause i was into that ... heaven ... but unfortunately the emotional balance made me feel ... the hell too.
Love is ... duality.
I've felt it.
I've strongly felt it.
And I've understood that 1+1=1.
I was so connected ... that I've totally lost my identity.
... becoming one with the other soul.
My ego ... disappeared.
All my existence ... changed.
I was ... here ... but actually living only and only into that story.
... into that parallel universe.
I've became one with the other soul.
Everyone told me that i've lost my minds.
Everyone ...
... and they repeated me that on and on and on.
I've totally lost my identity.
But ... i was happy.
Fortunately ... the time ... made me realise that 2 souls can become one.
And i've liked it.
... in fact adored it.
I've lost myself ... but i was not worried.
I've metamorphosed my soul with the other soul ... into one unique soul.
It was amazing.
Unfortunately ... all was temporary.
I knew it ... but i've disliked it.
Today ... i don't regret anything.
Not regret anything ... anymore.
But ... i know that this is the magic formula ... for being happy while being into a relationship.
1+1=1.
Many ... laugh of me.
Of my thoughts.
... of all my perceptions about love and relationships.
But ... i know what i am taking about.
I was there.
... few times.
And ... it was amazing.
I felt ... alive.
I felt ... the Infinite.
I would do it ... again.
But ... i can't.
Maybe ... i am afraid of losing my identity again.
So ... I've decided to just write about the subject.
Like ... a self therapy.
But also ... guiding the others ... into those parallel universes which don't have anything to do with the real life.
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About the author
I've started to write my first book at 16 ... but then ... realizing i could not publish it ... i've abandoned the idea of being a ... writer.
20 years later ... i've started to write again ... believing i will finally succeed ... but i've failed one more time ... not getting the success i was chasing for.
Another 5 years later ... i've started one more time to write ... but this time ... more as a therapy.
It's what i've defined as ... self therapy.
I was analyzing and defining lots of weird ideas ... that were a lot related to me ... and my own soul.
I totally forgot that i was chasing for success.
I was simple writing my thoughts ... in essays ... becoming this way ... maybe not a writer .... but what many define as ... an essayist.
This is not a poet ... and not a writer.
Or maybe is kind of a poet that is incapable of writing poetry ... but is still expressing his thoughts ... into a similar way ... as a poet.
And is not a writer ... cause have not the ability to write for too long time ... about the same subject.
But maybe i am not an essayist... either.
I am just an ordinary person ... that could be better defined ... as a thinker.
Analyzing ... and defining my life ... practicing this process called ... self therapy ... i started to understand life ... and the way to better paths which i should follow.
And i've wrote ... and wrote ... and wrote ... realizing one day that i've published tens of books .... not really understanding how the hell I've succeeded doing that.
Today i dare to recommend writing ... as a therapy.
I could even say ... it's a simple way of understanding who we are ... but also a process that could help us ... heal our souls.
I personally continue to ... write.
It's in fact ... a non ending story that ... at least for myself ... will probably continue for the rest of my life.
But over all ... i am glad ... i am doing it.
I continue my philosophical journey ... not being able to define myself for clear as a writer or an essayist... but ...
Well .... most probably... i am on a good path.
And ... i would dare to recommend to everyone ... all what i am doing today.
