Position of Power: Extended Version

1. Stop begging and pleading and being needy.

Because it’s not going to do any good. The more you beg and plead and do all that nice shit and jump though all these monkey ass hoops for this person. It only makes you look stupid. And needy and desperate because they don’t care. They are not there. They checked out the relationship a long time ago and are looking for your replacement. The best thing for you to do now is to give up and stop trying.That’s the first thing you can do to start regaining your power back, stop all that silly ass shit.

2. Become independent. 

Show your ex that you can live life without them and you will regain your power back because this is how it works. The more you don’t need that person, the more that person wants you. It’s backwards, its nature, it is set up that way. The more you don’t want something the more you get it. Kind of like rich people, they get richer because they are already rich, they are not working for money. But what I’m trying to tell you is this, when you don’t need them and you are self-reliant, and you are independent and you don’t need them for absolutely nothing, they’ll want you. This will work in your business or job whatever area of your life.When you don’t need it there it is. Really this is how you operate from a position of power, always remember people want what they can't have.